Sex Toys For Couples: Enhancing Your Sex Life Together

You’re Invited

Sex and Fetish based Play Parties happen can happen any day, any place, and at any time. No two parties are usually alike. Parties can either be held on private property (such as someones home) or public property (such as a local dungeon, club, or hotel.) Getting invited to a sex party is easier than you think. Many websites like FetLife (and even Facebook) have groups of people that meet up; sometimes on a regular weekly or monthly basis. On a bolder note, you could always ask your friends if anything is happening locally.

Read the Rules!

Power Sources can impact your experience more than you might think. The kind of battery used can impact the strength of your vibes. Watch Batteries come standard in most bullet vibrators. These batteries can run out quickly if you use your bullet often or for long sessions. They can’t always be picked up at your corner store. Most adult stores carry them because of how common they are in these toys. Unlike most larger battery options, watch batteries are usually included in your purchase

Mental Preparation

Before attending any event or party, it’s good to get a clear idea of what you what you are comfortable with experiencing. Many people have anxious/nervous jitters at their first party. A great way to pacify this is by bringing a long a friend or partner. Just be sure to have a comfort conversation with them too! Usually an outgoing friend/ partner is happy to accompany you, even if it isn’t their cup of tea.

Packing A Bag

While your event may span anywhere from a few hours to overnight, you should always prepare a bag. Be sure to pack cash if your party is requiring admission. Outfits, condoms, lube, and toys are other things you should bring along. Other useful items include baby wipes, hand sanitizer, and a small towel.

The Party!

If attending with a partner, go over your personal set of rules a second time. This is especially true for swinging parties or if you plan on pairing up with others at the event. Make arrangements to meet up if you lose each other or intentionally separate. Once arriving, pay admission if necessary and greet the host. They will usually clarify or emphasize or add updated rules.

Remember that the point of this party is to let loose and enjoy yourself. Arriving on time will save you the embarrassment of walking in to the middle of scenes. Many parties and events have a cocktail hour to allow things to unwind organically. Remember to clean up any messes you make (aren’t you glad we had you bring baby wipes?) and have fun!